Tuesday 16 August 2011

Home again

There is no better description of the family holiday than that given by David Nicholls in his wonderful book ‘One Day’ ...a sort of harsh experiment in the limits of human proximity.”

As far as holidaying with teenagers goes, never a truer word was spoken or written.  It is for this reason that I only booked the holiday for one week this year.  I knew full well that, by the end of 7 days, we would all be heartily sick of one another.  The trouble starts when someone – well let’s not lie – it’s me - tries to book a holiday.  I go around the family and ask them to tell me where they would like to go and what sort of place they would like to stay in.  The reply is big fat silence.  After several weeks of this, I get bored and book the kind of holiday I like – ie one that is basically pretty antisocial – a villa with a pool.  This year’s offering was on the Algarve – close to various lovely beaches (I believe – we are not keen beach people and didn’t visit one of them).  I chose it on the basis that a) it had the biggest pool of any of the ones that were available in our price bracket and b) it was suitably remote from any vestiges of night life (ha ha!) as I don’t need to spend my holiday worrying about the whereabouts and safety of drunken teenagers.  I can do that at home, thanks very much.  Consequently, the teens spent a little time whingeing bitterly about the lack of wi-fi and then actually settled down to playing with the resident cat population and (whisper it) reading books in between mucking about in the pool, playing cricket and generally trying to drown or otherwise kill each other in poolside games.

The Shah and the boy played golf, TD and I spent hours just lazing around and I read four and a half books in the space of that one week.  In other words, it was great and I feel recharged and ready to go back to work sometime in the next couple of weeks (I'm not thinking about it just yet.)  The beauty of working in a school is that I managed to negotiate a contract that gave me about 9 weeks holiday a year.  It’s a beaut.  I have to be there during term time but I do get large chunks (not all) of the holidays off.  The payoff, of course, is that we can only ever take holidays at the most expensive time of year.

The cats have returned home with colds and are sneezing continually in a highly disgusting manner.  I’m intending to tough it out, well  they’re going to tough it out because we’re getting to the point where I may as well just have my salary paid directly into the bulging coffers of the sodding Vet.

However, the bin men managed to take away the maggotfest I referred to last time.  Life is good!

8 comments:

  1. Welcome home, glad you survived the annual family holiday (no mean feat).

    Are you going to see the film of One Day that's just come out? Anne Hathaway and her hopeless Yorkshire accent is the bad mark the guy in The Times online gave it.

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  2. Hi Sarah - Yes, I'm kind of dreading the film of the book...I just can't see her in the role and I have heard really bad things about her Yorkshire accent! :(

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  3. So glad we are not the only 'not beach people'..and the rest of you hol sounds fab...hope the weather stays good as we are off to portugal next month.

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  4. Libby - hope you have a great time - it was well over 30 every day and up to 37 some days. Mostly there was a breeze too which made it perfect. Whereabouts are you going?

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  5. Between Silves and Lagoa. Over the years we have been all the way up and down the coast from end to end and always had a good time....going a bit further inland this time...as I said..not beach people!

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  6. As usual you have written a perfect post - this time on holidays. Yes villa with pool is my kind of vacay, but when I think about the consequences - kids fighting all the time about the pool toys, cooking constantly, cleaning up and never a moment's peace, we then book the more ugly alternative of all-inclusive, buffet meals, swim up to disgusting cocktails pool, noisy rooms and - yes - kids programme.

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  7. Libby - you will be very close to where we were in Porches ( where the pottery is made. . Not that we bought any of it!) I quite like looking at beaches - they always look so appealing from a distance. Then I like to turn the car round, go back to the villa and jump in the pool! Have a great time!

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  8. Thanks Jody. II think both sorts of hols have their attractions. Maybe next year I'll be kinder to everyone and book us into a bigger resort. ...maybe!

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